Choosing Your Wedding Photographer? Here’s the BIG Question You’re Not Asking!
So, you’re planning your wedding (woohoo!), and you’re on the hunt for the perfect Cotswold wedding photographer. You’ve scrolled through Instagram, stalked websites, and saved a million Pinterest photos. But now, the big question hits you:
“How do we KNOW if this photographer is actually the right fit for us?”
With SO many wedding photographers out there, each with their own vibe, style, and personality, it’s overwhelming. Some shoot in that dramatic, moody way. Others go full-on light and airy. Some are all about natural, documentary moments, while others prefer a more editorial, fashion-forward feel.
And let’s be real—this isn’t just about stunning images. It’s about trusting someone to capture the one of the biggest days of your life in a way that actually feels like YOU.
So, how do you figure it out? Let’s break it down.
What If You’re Choosing for Your Future Self?
Most couples pick a wedding photographer based on what they love right now—what’s trendy, what looks amazing on Instagram, or what’s featured in wedding magazines. But here’s a wild thought:
What if the real challenge isn’t choosing a photographer for today… but for your future selves?
Fast forward 10, 20, 50 years. You’re flipping through your wedding album. What photos will really matter to you?
• Will you still be obsessed with that perfectly styled editorial shot?
• Or will you be drawn to that raw, emotional moment where your dad wiped away a tear?
• That crazy dance floor moment where your best friend did the biggest belly laugh?
• The last photo you have of a grandparent hugging you?
The best photos aren’t just beautiful—they’re TIME MACHINES. They take you back, make you feel the love, and remind you of the people who made that day unforgettable.
So when choosing your photographer, don’t just ask, “Do we love their style?” Ask:
Do they capture emotion in a way that feels timeless?
Will these images bring back the feeling of the day—not just how it looked?
Are they great at catching those unposed, fleeting moments—the ones we might not realize are priceless until years later?
Because trust me, your future self will thank you.
Your Most Precious Photo Might Be One You Didn’t Plan For
Everyone obsesses over the big shots: the first kiss, the confetti moment, the golden-hour portraits. And yeah, those are EPIC and look amazing on Instagram. But here’s the thing…
Your favorite photo might end up being one you never even expected.
It could be:
That tiny glance between you and your partner as you see eachother for the first time during the ceremony.
Your parent’s proud, teary-eyed smile during the vows.
That absolute CHAOS on the dance floor at 10 PM when your best friend decided they were now a backup dancer for Beyoncé.
A great wedding photographer isn’t just skilled at staged shots. They see the magic happening in the background. They anticipate those split-second, unscripted moments that—years from now—will mean everything.
So, when looking for your wedding photographer, ask yourself: Are they just good at posing people, or are they amazing at catching the real, unexpected magic? Will they tell your unique story?
Do you want someone who only captures the “perfect” moments? Or do you want someone who documents the full, messy, hilarious, emotional, REAL story of your day?
Because let’s be honest—the real moments? The ones with personality, emotion, and pure joy? They’re the ones you’ll treasure forever.
The Best Photographer Isn’t Just About Style—It’s About How They Make You Feel
You can love someone’s portfolio, but if they make you feel awkward or uncomfortable on the day… guess what? That’s going to show in your photos.
The secret to natural, joyful, insanely amazing wedding photos? Feeling totally at ease.
That’s why connection is EVERYTHING. Before you book a wedding photographer, get to know them! Have a chat, see if you vibe. Because the right photographer isn’t just good with a camera—they’re good at making YOU feel like the best, most confident, most authentic version of yourself and will be your biggest hype person on the day.
When you feel amazing, your photos will be next-level EPIC.
So, How Do You Find The One?
Here’s your game plan:
Look beyond the portfolio. Pay attention to the moments they capture, not just the poses.
Think about your future self. Will these photos still make you emotional in 20 years?
Ask yourself: Do they make us feel comfortable? The best photos come from real connection.
Trust your gut! If their work makes you feel something, that’s a good sign.
Choosing your wedding photographer is a BIG deal—but when you find the right one, it’s absolute magic.